As I look back on my childhood teaching of God, things were written in stone. God was out to punish for every miss step you made. And there was only one true path to God and Heaven. Most others were damned. You might be saved if you never heard the correct way. As I grew I blamed God for my Handicap. My granmother told me I had this problem because Eve sinned in The Garden of Eden. Thats tough for a six year old to take. But now I see regardless of what form or sex we give to our version of God. We are speaking to the same person or spiritual leader. Form and sex should Not be used to judge or condem anyone. No one knows for sure who has the right idea. Just do your best. That is all we humans can do. And Pray. Things workout in the end.