Do you ever wonder why things happen?
Do you ever find yourself asking yourself..."Why Me?"
Today I had an individual contact me asking me for help. This young lady, has been going through, so much and she keeps asking me, will it ever end? Will it ever get better?
As I have explained to her, things happen for a reason, we may not know the reason at that moment, but it will become clear. Sometimes it is a challenge or an obstacle that we need to experience, in order to grow and learn. We need to understand that not all things go as planned.
Also that there are people in your life that come into your life for a reason, and sometimes they stay with us, and other times, they leave us, however not without changing our lives in some way or another. Many people come into our lives because we need them at that moment in time.
I know it has been in my experience that I have people come into my life because I needed to look at something through another set of eyes or think about things in a different point-of-view.
Then there are times when I am the one that is supposed to come into their lives to change it or help them to learn and grow.
We have all felt at one moment in time the questions, "WHY ME," those who are spiritual will understand that there is a reason behind it, and well get through it and then realize why, it happened to them.
Others, somehow because they deserve it because they have done something to someone or it is their Karma.
You have not done anything to cause things to happen to you, however there is a cause and effect of things, and well if you through a stone in a pond, you create ripples, and first it starts small and then grows...it is kind of how I explain how a rumor or lie spreads. But, it could also be you jumping into something that you do not know much about and then getting the odds of all the pressure of those ripples, which create a ball rolling or movement, in which you have become involved in.
Take our molecules every day they bump into one another everyday. What we eat digests and bumps into each other and either causes havoc or it helps us to get energy and grow healthy.
Think about how you feel when the "WHY ME" questions come up, and then after you get through it, how you think about it.
Some of us have to go through these "WHY ME" moments, so that we can handle what life has to bring us.
Just remember, if you get to a point where you think you cannot handle it on your own, there is always people out there that will be willing to listen and help.
I am here to listen, and here to help others learn and grow. My book shows how I used to deal with the "WHY ME" moments and how I got through them. I write, to clear my head, there are many things out there that you can do like meditation, in which can help.
Or contacting a friend, or even a stranger to talk to. If anyone ever needs just someone to talk to and for someone to listen, I offer my services to you and my friendship.
Many Blessings with love and light always, Namaste and Blessed Be!
~ )O(CMD
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