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Victor Sloan

Graveyard+Disrespectful Friend=?

  •        So around 12 am January 23rd, I went to a graveyard at midnight with a few friends of mine.  All of us are sensitive to energies and spirits.  Two of my friends with me can even see and hear spirits.  Well, one of my friends has the "ghost hunter" mindset.  He took off from the group as soon as we got to the graveyard.  I asked him to stay close to the group because I sensed that he needed to.  He said no and kept going.  He then proceeded to start taking pictures with a bright flash.  All of a sudden, the graveyard was no longer peaceful.  The spirits vecame angry with him, and instead of sticking to the path, he walked up through the graves.  I chased after him to protect him and apologize to the spirits for him so he would be safe.

           When my friend finally came back to the path to me, my girlfriend walked up to me and placed her hand on my heart and coursed energy through me.  When I asked her what that was about, she told me that a spirit had attached itself to me and was following me.  We then decided we would leave before matters escalated.  As we were walking away, we realized that my friend I had protected wasn't following us, but was still standing still.  I called to him and told him we were leaving and he appeared to be walking toward me.  When I realized he wasn't walking toward us, I went to him to bring him back and realized he was walking the opposite direction.  I called to him but he didn't respond.  I kept following him, but it was like no matter how fast I walked, I never got any closer.  finally, he turned down a path on which I sensed an evil energy. I no longer felt like I was chasing after my friend.  It was like there was a veil between us and he wasn't even real.  I felt as though I was chasing after a shadow and at any moment, the shadow would turn and attack me.  However, I finally reached my friend and told him we had to leave because one of our other friends was starting to get sick from all of the spirits trying to speak to her at the same time.  He said, "Oh, ok" in a very airy, confused voice, as though he had just come back to himself.  He had been led there by something that had taken him from himself and I was thankful I reached him.

           As we decided to leave, we finally caught back up with the rest of our group.  However, as we were leaving, my friend ran up through the graves and out of sight and my girlfriend and I called out to him but he didn't respond.  She told me to chase after him so I did and found him standing my a gravestone with a cross carved into it.  I kept trying to get his attention but he wasn't responding.  Suddenly, I felt really nervous about having left my girlfriend alone, but I didn't want to leave my friend alone, so I called to him again and said we had to go, but he said, "Not yet..."

           I ran to a halfway point between my girlfriend and my friend so I could watch them both, or try to.  He finally started coming back, so we all left.  Well, when we got back to our place, we were relaxing, thankful that that was all over.  Well... We discovered it wasn't over yet...  My girlfriend started behaving strangely.  She is a very loving person, but she was being loving in a very uncharacteristic way...  She started getting hyper and kissing me and trying to touch me and basically seduce me while our friends were all in the same room with us.  It was like she wasn't herself, because she wouldn't do something like that.  Then shje started very lovingly humming and singing while tracing my features with a finger, and she doesn't do that either.  I was a bit nervous, but I thought maybe that was just the mood she was in, so I kissed her, but it didn't feel right.  One of our female friends walked over and bit her shoulder to snap her out of whatever was going on.  Usually, it wouldn't have affected her, or if it had hurt, she would have just winced or said "Ow," but she started crying! She started bawling as though she had just had her heart absolutely broken!  It broke my heart so much to see her crying! I wrapped my arms around her and kept saying, "It's ok, it's ok!"  I was trying to comfort her.

           It was by that reaction that we knew that she wasn't herself.  A spirit had attached itself to her and was trying to overtake and control her.  I found it so odd that it was using her to get close to me...  She finally came back to herself and we were all hungry, so we went out to McDonald's and along the way, she had another crying fit and then a laughing fit.  One of my friends then put blessed oil upon my girlfriend's forehead and it was like it was burning her! She was writhing in pain and it broke my heart to see that too, but I knew it was necessary to get rid of the spirit that was trying to control her.  I knew it would hurt her more, but I knew what I had to do to help.  I placed two fingertips on her forehead where the oil was applied and began praying over her in a spirit language that I carry and it burned her worse.  I hated that, but it was necessary.  Eventually, she stopped moving then opened her eyes and she was back to herself!  My poor love was so exhausted after the battle and she had a headache, but she fought it and succeeded!  I am so proud of her!

           I will admit that I was scared to death that night because that was my first encounter with aything quite like that.  The reason things happened the way they did became clear when we discovered what the spirit was.  The spirit was that of a woman who committed suicide after falling completely in love and then losing that love.  She was the spirit that my girlfriend detached from me.  She felt the love that my girlfriend have for one another and wanted to experience that for herself, so she attached to my girlfriend and tried to live through her.  It was the spirit trying to seduce me to feel my love.  She wanted to take over my girlfriend to have me.  We couldn't allow that to happen.

           Though I know we did what we had to do, I hate that we had to do things that way, because I feel that we hurt a spirit that wasn't evil.  She was just so consumed with her sorrow that she caused harm.  She was heartbroken and we cast her away.  Once again, I know it was necessary, but afterwards, I tried to contact her to apologize and explain that she couldn't have us.  I tried to explain that if she allows herself to move on, then in the next life, maybe she can experience love again for herself.

     

    I just pray I did the right thing and I thank God for seeing us through this trial!

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